Today, people can be in bondage in many ways: debt, drugs, alcohol, gambling, pornography, sexual abuse, to name a few, and hopping a ship to go to another country won't bring healing! To be free from these types of bondage requires a commitment to a twelve step addictive recovery program available in many countries. Committing to a Higher Power of choice, and staying with the program, there will be success and freedom of bondage!
The twelve steps are steps to repentance and forgiveness, focusing on the consequences of our own behavior rather that that of another. This may seem the wrong focus, as many relatives or friends of alcoholics, for example, become obsessed with hiding the liquor or preventative measures so the alcoholic can't imbibe. Actually they themselves become so controlling about it that they can't see" the forest for the trees". Only when we ourselves change, will those around us change, not because we want to force change, but rather allow another their freedom to choose. Sometimes allowing another to suffer the consequences of their behavior, or "hitting bottom", is really a compassionate choice and staying in an abusive situation is not productive to the victim.
That came to me clearly as my childhood home was one of chaotic confusion and trauma, I realized later in my adulthood that I had been so influenced, that I was acting out some compulsive addictive behavior, mainly character defects. At one point prescription drugs became a problem, as my childhood illnesses continued in to adulthood, realizing this, I found other ways to overcome this. As alcohol had been a big part of my growing up, where I lived, I was so negatively influenced by this, that I vowed I would never smoke or drink. Cigarettes were very popular in those days and no one knew the negative effects they would have in the future. Dad seemed to be able to manage later on and had ceased smoking and drinking due to some intervention including a mild coronary occlusion with no surgery, this actually elongated his life. Mum on the other hand showed signs of lung disease in her earlier years and struggled with it her remaining years.
I had had some negative memories return later on and with that, and my childhood being such an influence, I started in a twelve step program. As I focused on my character defects and stopped blaming, I started to feel empowered by this program. Also incorporating the Gospel principles and relying on the Savior's grace, I felt as if a big backpack of stones were emptied, the chains fell off, a feeling was that of freedom from bondage! Now twenty seven years later, I am so grateful for that answer to prayer.Three years ago my husband and I were fortunate to serve a mission in an addictive recovery program in our area, incorporated by our church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Specifically we taught that our Higher Power is Jesus Christ and only in and through him can we be released. One of our Articles of Faith reads, "We claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience, and allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may."

Not everything is ever resolved, we still live in mortality and still face this world of opposition, but there is much good that is happening, and we can choose how we react to life! We still can have some days when nothing seems to go right or as planned, accidents happen, we can't control "people, places or things", all we can do is the best we can!

